Upbringing a child starts at Home

Posted by admin | Raising Your Child | Tuesday 22 June 2010 1:16 am

Upbringing a child starts at HomeRaising your child can be the most beautiful thing for you. But if you are a first-time parent, you need to be cautious of certain things so that there are no hurdles in upbringing the child.

Before we read any further, it is important for us to know that upbringing a child starts at home as parents are the first teachers of the child and have significant influence over growth and development of children.

From Healthandsuppliments.com:

Upbringing a child starts at home and you really need to have a lot of patience and information for ensuring success of your upbringing plans. The first step in this process is to talk to your baby. Even though the child may not be able to express his thoughts or answer your questions, he or she will know that you are some one special. In addition to that, try to add words in your talks whenever your child makes sounds. You can even read and sing to your baby. It is interesting to note here that children who listen to music in their early childhood days are known to develop a love for mathematics and music.

Furthermore, never leave your child away from you for long. Try to spend as much of quality time as possible by cuddling and holding him or her. This will bring a sense of care and security, something only your young child can feel. If you want to play with your baby, make sure that he is alert and relaxed and not feeling sleepy else he or she may not be able to pay attention and you may be left disappointed thinking that the activity is not liked.

By following these tips, you can make things simple and fun for you as well as the child.

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Raising Your Child with minimal efforts

Posted by admin | Video | Wednesday 26 May 2010 12:50 am

In this YouTube video, Asia’s no. 1 Parenting Guru Alan Yip shares some effective tips on raising your child with less stress. This video is a must-watch for every parent, especially those who are new to parenthood or want to soon join the league. The video could be the best guide to help your child attain beyond academic excellence.

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Back to School Transition

Posted by admin | Raising Your Child | Thursday 22 April 2010 1:34 am

Back to School TransitionDo you as a parent find it difficult to wake up your kids on time after their long vacation or adjusting their time schedule as you want that to be? Read this article on back to school transition that could help you to a significant extent.

Long vacations for school going kids are more like long awaited holidays when they can enjoy, play, go around with friends, and do lots of exciting activities that they always want to do but due to time shortage and heavy load of homework, they were not able to enjoy them.

Most of the kids find it difficult to return back to school after long summer vacations, they even complain that they get bored in the long vacations and had nothing special to do. So parents have to remember a few things to ease this back to school transition stage to make them aware that everyone feels a little nervous about the first day of school and that it will all become an everyday routine in a few days. Let them know the positive aspect of going back to school, such as hanging out with old friends, meeting new classmates, and lots of new learning with new teachers. Talk to your kids to know about their worries and do not hesitate to offer reassurances.

As a parent, you can adjust your own time schedule to make the transition smoother. It’s especially beneficial for parents to be home at the end of the school day for the first week. If it is not possible for you then spend quality time in the evening with them to know and care for their needs.

Hope this article on raising your child helped you to some extent for helping your children with back to school transition.

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How to Raise Your Children?

Posted by admin | Raising Your Child | Thursday 8 April 2010 1:18 am

How to Raise Your Children?
Raising your child can be one of the biggest hurdles before you consciously start making efforts to be a good parent. Read on how you can and each one of us can do this otherwise “almost impossible” task in an easy manner.

Parenthood is a kind of happiness which comes to you with responsibilities to be followed. Everybody parent wants to be the best parent and hope that his or her children should be raised in the best environment. But as we all know that raising children is one of the most difficult tasks for the parents, especially the newly blessed parents. So, let us learn how to raise our children in the best manner so that they will become successful, optimistic, and good individuals.

Let us check the below guidelines that will help us to raise our children:

  1. Parents are required to praise their children from the time they were toddlers. It is important for parents to show their love towards children as this feeling is not be kept hidden. Parents should let their children know that they are proud to have them as children.
  2. Make your children realize that you don’t like misbehavior and you are upset by their acts, when you feel so. But don’t raise your hand or yell at them, it is best to make them sit with you and explain them what you don’t like and why.
  3. Teach morals to your children but don’t forget to follow the same as children like to copy their parents and follow them. They learn more from what they see than what they are being told.
  4. Let your children do small things for themselves, even if they face some challenges, as after finishing that work they’ll experience the feeling of success that will help them to develop a sense of self-esteem and optimism.
  5. Let the children ask questions rather following the given orders without knowing there if’s and but’s, Take their suggestions to make rules.
  6. Don’t pamper or go strict on your children. Each child has his own individual weaknesses and strengths. While one may be good in studies, another may be good in sports.

By observing these small tips, you can provide the best environment to your child so that he or she can grow to the fullest. If you can do that, raising your child would be all fun!

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Do’s and Don’ts – Raising Your Child

Posted by admin | Raising Your Child | Saturday 19 December 2009 4:35 am

Do's and Don’ts - Raising Your ChildMost parents, in today’s world, do not have enough quality time to spend with their children. The reason may be as genuine as busy work schedules and as stupid as social networking, but the truth is that more and more children are living in this world on their own.

Here are some do’s and some don’ts while raising your child.

Do’s:

  1. Always try to be a friend of your child rather than just a parent
  2. Understand the real needs of your child
  3. Respect your elders and child and your children will respect you
  4. Help your child learn different activities like swimming, horse riding, and games besides education
  5. Encourage him to take decisions on his own
  6. If he is wrong, let him know why he was wrong and how things could have been avoided
  7. Talk calmly and hear his views and reasons of an act before playing the blame game
  8. Always appreciate a good act
  9. Do not discourage him when he is wrong
  10. Do not teach short-cuts, which are unethical, to your child
  11. Never abuse your child: physically, mentally, or socially
  12. Do not nourish bad habits in your children assuming that to be cuteness or a matter of time
  13. Do not force your decision or lifestyle
  14. Never appreciate his wrong deeds
  15. Do not laugh at his wrong doings, ailments, or weaknesses
  16. Never compare your child with any one, each child is special

Don’ts:

These small yet meaningful tips can make all the difference when it comes to raising your child.

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How to be a friend of your child?

Posted by admin | Raising Your Child | Friday 11 December 2009 5:43 am

How to be a friend of your child?If you want your child to be happy and perfect besides sharing his success and failure stories, make sure that you are more of a friend than just a parent. This means that you should be the first person to discuss a problem and share joy for your child and the child must not respect you because he fears you but because he admires your presence in his life. Spend quality time with your child so that he can talk freely with you.

Before you can be a good friend of your children, you need to understand some things very clearly. Never ever crack a joke on your child’s success or failure. If he has made a mistake, accept that as a human mistake and let your child know that you still love him. Make him understand the difference between the right and the wrong so that he makes less mistakes and learn from the mistakes to be a better personality, even better than you.

Do not let your child down by making promises you cannot keep or expecting too much from him. Give him a space to grow – to grow as a child, as a member of the society, and to grow as a good human being. Never appreciate his wrong deeds just to make him happy and guide him with ethics.

If you can follow these tips, your child will admire the company of the most trustworthy friend in his life – you! This was all about raising your child in the best possible manner.

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